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My Boyfriend Has Herpes He Didnt Tell Me Now I Might Be Infected Im Scared To Death

It is estimated that 1 out of 6 people have genital herpes. About 90 of them don’t know it. Valacyclovir taken daily can reduce risk of transmission to a partner by as much as 50. I didn’t mean to but kissing turned into a lot of touching, I’m scared to tell him now because we did it but also I don’t want to have passed it on to please somebody tell me that because I’m on meds and we used a condom that there is a great chance I didn’t pass it to him? Reply. My husband has type1, and didnt realized he had given it to me. He kept telling me not to be scared and he kept trying to get me to be serious with him and I kept pushing him away. I wish now I would have had it before in the past but always found excuses not to, Another waste of precious time. I’m 19, and have only been with my current boyfriend. I was in complete denial, I didn’t know anything about herpes and I had a panic attack while the doctor was examining me. My boyfriend has herpes. He didnt tell me. Now i might be infected. Im scared to death. ? she was not my girlfriend, she was just my sex buddy for a while.

So now i am left with a real dilema, I actually do love this girl, she is the most amazing lady i have ever met, and i was planning on spending the rest of my life with her, however now with this bomb shell, I dont know what to do? Does one take a risk for catching a life long STD for someone they love? or does one turn their back on someone they love on what is likely the worst week of her life, and look out for themselves? I really could use some perspective Bossy. Doesnt matter if you were with your partner for 1000 years, if he was getting around before, or during the relationship, the length of it bears no consequence to how slutty they were previously. My thought is that he WANTS to but is scared he’d be judged as a shallow, sex-starved moron who’s only in it for the pussy. As an infected bloke I can tell you that an outbreak of genital herpes does really suck. Oh yeah, here you are, the lab tech told me as she pulled up my record. I sent the ex-boyfriends I’m on good terms with excited Guess what! As you might already know, herpes is actually two different viruses: HSV-1 and HSV-2. ) HSV-2 affects about 17 percent of adults, but here’s the scary part: 85 percent of those infected don’t know they have it. After going through the normal flip out and that my dating life would now consist of Ben and Jerry’s and DVD’s every Saturday night, I’m ready to get out there again. I have zero fear about continuing my relationship with my new partner as long as we continue to properly use condoms. It sucks that she didn’t tell you, regardless of if she actually infected you. I am soo scared he will look at me differently and hate me.

She’s Just Found Out She Has Herpes. Do I Dump Her Before I Get It Too?

We do not know what type he has and i am going back to retest at least twice. What confuses me is that it was not even in his blood and i thus far do not have it. My question remains if i did not have herpes in my blood i never exposed him correct? And if he did not cheat how does a swab come back positive? If the herpes was dormant wouldn’t he have antibodies to it at least? Also what does typing the swab do? Even if it is type 1 instead of type 2 it would still be genital and contagious to me if indeed i end up not having this in 4 months. Even though i think this im scared to put myself in a spot where it may be hard to have future relationships if we were to break up and at 22 marriage isnt around the corner. Because most people with chlamydia do not know that they have it, they can pass it on to someone else unknowingly. Me and my boyfriend were both infected with chlamydia. I am now pregnant and scared to death cause of what I was told. Asymptomatic shedding of the virus from dead skin cells can infect another person, whether or not you use protection. You could have gotten it from your first sexual partner when you were fifteen, and not have a breakout until you are 35. The nurse scared the crap out of me and hated on my BF of the time (4yrs).

I can not believe 85 of the population is living with herpes. the thing about it, is that i didn’t know i had it. Now, my boyfriend I have now is infected with the virus and is in an outbreak. Now I am afraid because I know I have to tell him, he deserves to know. It made me furious that he didn’t insist on using a condom, knowing he had this skin condition! Also, considering how good of friends we are. Finding out you have herpes can be a very difficult experience. After about a week of being sexually active with this guy, I got the worse yeast infection of my LIFE! I went to the OBGYN, they loaded me up on Diflucan and cream, but the yeast infection didn’t really ever go away. SCARED to death. From my married boyfriend of 8yrs. i now feel so cheated and ashamed. i havent even asked him to go 4 a test. He tries to say how we don’t know I’m not the one who gave him the fever blister the previous week. The fact that she didn’t tell me she had it hurt. I’m doing to them exactly what was done to me. Humans have been swapping infections under the covers for centuries. Syphilis has nearly been eradicated, now affecting about 6, 600 people, mostly in southern states. He says that before he contracted herpes he would hear of a woman having an STD and think she was loose or damaged goods. Ok sorry if i sound pissy but im mad right now and have a question to ask. Anyways he told me he didnt tell me because he was told by a doctor when he was in prison that hepatitis C was so rare to catch through sexual contact that they’ve never actually had any just sexual cases recorded that most where from tattoos or needles, drug needles mostly ( that is how he caught it). But still want to know what my risks truely are and if anyone has ever been infected through just having sex. I can not pass it I have to low of a count now and my bf (hes the one in prison) does NOT have it. I am afraid I could pass this on to them, so I constantly wash my hands and disinfect the house and car. I take pride in my appearance and finding out I may have herpes scares me to death. The doctor didn’t even tell me what type nor can they because of my rare case! I have a boyfriend now who knows my condition and he is so supportive this isn’t how I thought life with an STD would go and it’s not easy, not at all but if you give up its going to end all chances for this to get better. When should you tell your date you have Hepatitis C and what do you say? Hi, I’m a recovering alcoholic with Hep C. My husband died of a heroin overdose and I have been a widow for 10 years. (And he didn’t get herpes either! ). I don’t know what I would have done had he told me the truth at the beginning of our relationship or after a month or two, or ever, but I think what he did decide was the worst option possible.

Living With Herpes

My nose was bleeding days after. i didnt have any sexual contact with anyone but im afraid because now (weeks later) i have bumps around my genital area. Honestly I am scared to -death- to get tested, I know I have done permenant damage to my body somehow. Read More & Answers Resolved Question: Do i have herpes? i deperately need help plz. Resolved Question: How to handle having herpes? 13-12-2012 14: 29: 00Question Detail: You know I’ve always felt unattractive now I feel down right dirty I just recently contracted the STI herpes and im miserable. He didnt tell me. Now i might be infected. Im scared to death. My ex bf and I lived together, but never really had sex, because he was HSV-2 positive, and would never tell me when he was having an outbreak, and then I’d get infected. (twice in the hour) I am so mad at myself right now, I am so scared, I had nightmares all night. I just would rather be dead then tell him and lose him! Not that I know if you could have infected me with something as you did not seem like a condom was important. Now I am in my senior year of high school and got 2 in the past two months! But my boyfriend thinks he might have when he was in hs (his mom, a nurse practitioner who therefore knows about medicine, even got him Abreva, cold sore meds) and is pissed that I’m making him get a herpes test. I was wondering if the virus can infect and spread that fast or if i could of always had it and it just appeared from bad luck? I don’t think i can handle break outs few times a year without mentally breaking down myself i’m just so scared and everyone that i told about it tell me nothing is wrong but i just can’t let it go i protect myself from stuff like this my whole life and thinking a lil slip up by scratching my nose can bring a viruse that will never leave me is making me sick as i type. They now know how herpes embeds itself into the cells and how it eludes treatment. I divorced my husband, but was scared to death to date. He finally asked me if there was a reason I didn’t want to have sex and I had no choice but to tell him. My boyfriend broke up with me last night and I still can’t stop crying. Telling someone that you have genital herpes may seem scary at first. Who now considers himself as my bf. I am afraid that if I tell him now, he might not want to speak to me and think I did it out of malice. Right now, I’m a few days away from finding out if I have HIV or not and the waiting is excruciatingly painful. I appreciate all the positive comments on this site and I didn’t want to leave such an awful piece of writing for you all to read, but this is what I’m feeling. My bf has an HIV. we dated and after few months he told me he has. I was prophesised that my blood have HIV. im scared of death and how long i can live since the prophert said i hv a pulmonery TB, Pulmonery Tb is our family disease, it Kills about 9 members in our family. I’m scared of dating. I live alone and have no one to care for me when I’m ill, so I do my best to avoid getting sick. If I were to get herpes from someone who didn’t know he was infected, well that’s the luck of the draw. People go into a marriage recognizing that their partner has the potential for developing diseases and conditions. I slept with someone who was a liar and he didn’t tell me that he had herpes. Also: 1 Peter 2: 24 Who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness by whose stripes you were healed. Hello, my name is tessy. this is my story, i and my partner have been dating for two years before i relocated to america, and when i moved we started having conflicts. Thanks so much. i am in USA right now. and dealing with the break up with my ex and this disease is not easy for me. Now, before you get your hopes up, just know that there have been other attempts at a vaccine or cure for herpes and they have not been successful. I didn’t have breakouts the whole time and if I did they would have gave me meds or did a c section. I’m not sure if I gave it to my husband or if he gave it to me. Every since i found out I had it which was a week ago scared me to death. Yeast infections, herpes, trichomonas, recent sexual activity, or use of vaginal preparations, are often things which cause an abnormal Pap smear result. My gyno told me not to have sex the day of, or the day before, my appointment. Now, 3 years later, she has advanced breast cancer, and may not make it. My husband says I am the only one he has ever been with, I know in this day and age that sounds crazy, but I know who I’ve been with and I have no reason to doubt what my husband tells me. I’m scared to death. He may actually have the infection right now and be the one who gave it to her. Sometimes My Patients Bring Me Food. I have reason to believe it came from my last sexual partner nearly a year ago. I am a 42 year old, now-single woman with no children. Didn’t Tell, Now Regretting, Wish I Could Take It Back says:

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My Boyfriend Has Herpes He Didnt Tell Me Now I Might Be Infected Im Scared To Death

It is estimated that 1 out of 6 people have genital herpes. About 90 of them don’t know it. Valacyclovir taken daily can reduce risk of transmission to a partner by as much as 50. I didn’t mean to but kissing turned into a lot of touching, I’m scared to tell him now because we did it but also I don’t want to have passed it on to please somebody tell me that because I’m on meds and we used a condom that there is a great chance I didn’t pass it to him? Reply. My husband has type1, and didnt realized he had given it to me. He kept telling me not to be scared and he kept trying to get me to be serious with him and I kept pushing him away. I wish now I would have had it before in the past but always found excuses not to, Another waste of precious time. I’m 19, and have only been with my current boyfriend. I was in complete denial, I didn’t know anything about herpes and I had a panic attack while the doctor was examining me. My boyfriend has herpes. He didnt tell me. Now i might be infected. Im scared to death. ? she was not my girlfriend, she was just my sex buddy for a while.

So now i am left with a real dilema, I actually do love this girl, she is the most amazing lady i have ever met, and i was planning on spending the rest of my life with her, however now with this bomb shell, I dont know what to do? Does one take a risk for catching a life long STD for someone they love? or does one turn their back on someone they love on what is likely the worst week of her life, and look out for themselves? I really could use some perspective Bossy. Doesnt matter if you were with your partner for 1000 years, if he was getting around before, or during the relationship, the length of it bears no consequence to how slutty they were previously. My thought is that he WANTS to but is scared he’d be judged as a shallow, sex-starved moron who’s only in it for the pussy. As an infected bloke I can tell you that an outbreak of genital herpes does really suck. Oh yeah, here you are, the lab tech told me as she pulled up my record. I sent the ex-boyfriends I’m on good terms with excited Guess what! As you might already know, herpes is actually two different viruses: HSV-1 and HSV-2. ) HSV-2 affects about 17 percent of adults, but here’s the scary part: 85 percent of those infected don’t know they have it. After going through the normal flip out and that my dating life would now consist of Ben and Jerry’s and DVD’s every Saturday night, I’m ready to get out there again. I have zero fear about continuing my relationship with my new partner as long as we continue to properly use condoms. It sucks that she didn’t tell you, regardless of if she actually infected you. I am soo scared he will look at me differently and hate me.

She’s Just Found Out She Has Herpes. Do I Dump Her Before I Get It Too?

We do not know what type he has and i am going back to retest at least twice. What confuses me is that it was not even in his blood and i thus far do not have it. My question remains if i did not have herpes in my blood i never exposed him correct? And if he did not cheat how does a swab come back positive? If the herpes was dormant wouldn’t he have antibodies to it at least? Also what does typing the swab do? Even if it is type 1 instead of type 2 it would still be genital and contagious to me if indeed i end up not having this in 4 months. Even though i think this im scared to put myself in a spot where it may be hard to have future relationships if we were to break up and at 22 marriage isnt around the corner. Because most people with chlamydia do not know that they have it, they can pass it on to someone else unknowingly. Me and my boyfriend were both infected with chlamydia. I am now pregnant and scared to death cause of what I was told. Asymptomatic shedding of the virus from dead skin cells can infect another person, whether or not you use protection. You could have gotten it from your first sexual partner when you were fifteen, and not have a breakout until you are 35. The nurse scared the crap out of me and hated on my BF of the time (4yrs).

I can not believe 85 of the population is living with herpes. the thing about it, is that i didn’t know i had it. Now, my boyfriend I have now is infected with the virus and is in an outbreak. Now I am afraid because I know I have to tell him, he deserves to know. It made me furious that he didn’t insist on using a condom, knowing he had this skin condition! Also, considering how good of friends we are. Finding out you have herpes can be a very difficult experience. After about a week of being sexually active with this guy, I got the worse yeast infection of my LIFE! I went to the OBGYN, they loaded me up on Diflucan and cream, but the yeast infection didn’t really ever go away. SCARED to death. From my married boyfriend of 8yrs. i now feel so cheated and ashamed. i havent even asked him to go 4 a test. He tries to say how we don’t know I’m not the one who gave him the fever blister the previous week. The fact that she didn’t tell me she had it hurt. I’m doing to them exactly what was done to me. Humans have been swapping infections under the covers for centuries. Syphilis has nearly been eradicated, now affecting about 6, 600 people, mostly in southern states. He says that before he contracted herpes he would hear of a woman having an STD and think she was loose or damaged goods. Ok sorry if i sound pissy but im mad right now and have a question to ask. Anyways he told me he didnt tell me because he was told by a doctor when he was in prison that hepatitis C was so rare to catch through sexual contact that they’ve never actually had any just sexual cases recorded that most where from tattoos or needles, drug needles mostly ( that is how he caught it). But still want to know what my risks truely are and if anyone has ever been infected through just having sex. I can not pass it I have to low of a count now and my bf (hes the one in prison) does NOT have it. I am afraid I could pass this on to them, so I constantly wash my hands and disinfect the house and car. I take pride in my appearance and finding out I may have herpes scares me to death. The doctor didn’t even tell me what type nor can they because of my rare case! I have a boyfriend now who knows my condition and he is so supportive this isn’t how I thought life with an STD would go and it’s not easy, not at all but if you give up its going to end all chances for this to get better. When should you tell your date you have Hepatitis C and what do you say? Hi, I’m a recovering alcoholic with Hep C. My husband died of a heroin overdose and I have been a widow for 10 years. (And he didn’t get herpes either! ). I don’t know what I would have done had he told me the truth at the beginning of our relationship or after a month or two, or ever, but I think what he did decide was the worst option possible.

Living With Herpes

My nose was bleeding days after. i didnt have any sexual contact with anyone but im afraid because now (weeks later) i have bumps around my genital area. Honestly I am scared to -death- to get tested, I know I have done permenant damage to my body somehow. Read More & Answers Resolved Question: Do i have herpes? i deperately need help plz. Resolved Question: How to handle having herpes? 13-12-2012 14: 29: 00Question Detail: You know I’ve always felt unattractive now I feel down right dirty I just recently contracted the STI herpes and im miserable. He didnt tell me. Now i might be infected. Im scared to death. My ex bf and I lived together, but never really had sex, because he was HSV-2 positive, and would never tell me when he was having an outbreak, and then I’d get infected. (twice in the hour) I am so mad at myself right now, I am so scared, I had nightmares all night. I just would rather be dead then tell him and lose him! Not that I know if you could have infected me with something as you did not seem like a condom was important. Now I am in my senior year of high school and got 2 in the past two months! But my boyfriend thinks he might have when he was in hs (his mom, a nurse practitioner who therefore knows about medicine, even got him Abreva, cold sore meds) and is pissed that I’m making him get a herpes test. I was wondering if the virus can infect and spread that fast or if i could of always had it and it just appeared from bad luck? I don’t think i can handle break outs few times a year without mentally breaking down myself i’m just so scared and everyone that i told about it tell me nothing is wrong but i just can’t let it go i protect myself from stuff like this my whole life and thinking a lil slip up by scratching my nose can bring a viruse that will never leave me is making me sick as i type. They now know how herpes embeds itself into the cells and how it eludes treatment. I divorced my husband, but was scared to death to date. He finally asked me if there was a reason I didn’t want to have sex and I had no choice but to tell him. My boyfriend broke up with me last night and I still can’t stop crying. Telling someone that you have genital herpes may seem scary at first. Who now considers himself as my bf. I am afraid that if I tell him now, he might not want to speak to me and think I did it out of malice. Right now, I’m a few days away from finding out if I have HIV or not and the waiting is excruciatingly painful. I appreciate all the positive comments on this site and I didn’t want to leave such an awful piece of writing for you all to read, but this is what I’m feeling. My bf has an HIV. we dated and after few months he told me he has. I was prophesised that my blood have HIV. im scared of death and how long i can live since the prophert said i hv a pulmonery TB, Pulmonery Tb is our family disease, it Kills about 9 members in our family. I’m scared of dating. I live alone and have no one to care for me when I’m ill, so I do my best to avoid getting sick. If I were to get herpes from someone who didn’t know he was infected, well that’s the luck of the draw. People go into a marriage recognizing that their partner has the potential for developing diseases and conditions. I slept with someone who was a liar and he didn’t tell me that he had herpes. Also: 1 Peter 2: 24 Who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness by whose stripes you were healed. Hello, my name is tessy. this is my story, i and my partner have been dating for two years before i relocated to america, and when i moved we started having conflicts. Thanks so much. i am in USA right now. and dealing with the break up with my ex and this disease is not easy for me. Now, before you get your hopes up, just know that there have been other attempts at a vaccine or cure for herpes and they have not been successful. I didn’t have breakouts the whole time and if I did they would have gave me meds or did a c section. I’m not sure if I gave it to my husband or if he gave it to me. Every since i found out I had it which was a week ago scared me to death. Yeast infections, herpes, trichomonas, recent sexual activity, or use of vaginal preparations, are often things which cause an abnormal Pap smear result. My gyno told me not to have sex the day of, or the day before, my appointment. Now, 3 years later, she has advanced breast cancer, and may not make it. My husband says I am the only one he has ever been with, I know in this day and age that sounds crazy, but I know who I’ve been with and I have no reason to doubt what my husband tells me. I’m scared to death. He may actually have the infection right now and be the one who gave it to her. Sometimes My Patients Bring Me Food. I have reason to believe it came from my last sexual partner nearly a year ago. I am a 42 year old, now-single woman with no children. Didn’t Tell, Now Regretting, Wish I Could Take It Back says:

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